November – ELP Highlight

Name: Leticia Rosete

Age: 49

Hometown: New Orleans , La

Teen Challenge Center: Davie, Fl. Graduated Davie 2018.

Brief Testimony: Growing up my parents never showed me any love.  That led me to using drugs for over 30 years of my life. When coming to Teen Challenge I couldn’t believe let alone think that God loved a person like me.

As I started reading his word and believing, God started to show me how much he loved me.  It broke that lie that I believed for so long.  Now I have a real relationship with God and I feel contentment and peace in my heart.

What is the vision and calling that God has given you? God had given me a vision to be a servant leader to broken women that are bound by alcohol and life controlling problems.

How has the ELP Program impacted you? It has impacted me to be the leader that God has called me to be.   To get out myself and serve.   To be the change I want to see in others.

 

November – TF Highlight

Name: Nicole Kehrt

Age: 44

Hometown: Coral Springs, Florida

Teen Challenge Center:  Davie, Fl. Graduated from Davie in 2006.

Brief Testimony (3-5 sentences): Started using drugs around the age of 18 to cope with rejection and low self-esteem. Entered Teen Challenge in 2005 and found hope and identity in a personal relationship with Christ. I‘ve had the privilege of working with the women here at Davie Teen Challenge for the past 11 years, sharing with them the hope that was given to me.

What do you enjoy most about your role? Getting to see the miraculous transformations from the moment they enter our door to when they complete the program.

Why do you feel that leadership and training are valuable?  Leadership and training are valuable because I would say that most great leaders would point to a mentor in their life that played an important role in their success. 

Main Article – The Thanksgiving Lifestyle

 By Dustin Nance

It’s the season for gratitude, a time that we put extra effort into identifying the things we are most thankful for. So it’s no surprise that I’m writing about it this month. However, I want to challenge you that it shouldn’t just be a seasonal focus. It’s a choice we can make every day, in every situation, it’s a lifestyle. 

“Be joyful always; pray continually; give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God’s will for you in Christ.” 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18

I read recently, “Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow.” Being thankful Helps you appreciate every moment of your life…the good, bad and downright difficult. A good practice is to write down a few things you’re grateful for each night. It will help you focus on what is going right and even help you see opportunities you wouldn’t see without staying thankful. 

“Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” – Philippians 4:6-7

Gratitude strengthens our relationship with God and others. It draws people together and builds trust. It produces a better life for you and those around you! Do you like being around people who gripe and complain all the time?  I don’t! Those people suck the life out of me.

It’s also important to not just talk about it, but to be about it. Especially in this season these words ring true, “As we express our gratitude, we must never forget that the highest appreciation is not to utter words, but to live by them.” – John F Kennedy

Live the life of a person thankful to be alive, thankful for the family that is around you, thankful for the growth and change in your life and most important, thankful for the sacrifice that Christ made for you. 

I have a personal story that I want to include in this month’s newsletter. I’m reminded of my family’s thanksgiving season two years ago. My youngest daughter Annabel went through open-heart surgery at eight months old. To say it was a difficult time in our life is an understatement. Waking into the recovery room, seeing her strapped down to that bed, with wires and tubes coming out of her chest is the hardest moment of my life.

However, we were surrounded by people that were praying for us and truly Jesus’ hands and feet to us. I will forever be thankful for those who stood with us, cried with us, made us food, prayed with us, and so much more. Through the entire process we tried to stay thankful because truly, without the surgery she wouldn’t have had a long life expectancy. Annabel came through the surgery and recovery time quickly, and better than ever. It took a couple weeks, but she was full of energy and it was visible that the surgery had done its job. If you have had the pleasure of meeting her than you know she is an absolute joy. She may bare some pretty rad scars, but she is better for them.  

Looking back, I am more thankful for that surgery and all that happened surrounding it than I am hurt by it. Sometimes at the deepest points of pain and hurt we find what we have to be most thankful for. For me, it’s a God that loves me, my amazing wife, 3 awesome kids and family & friends willing to stand with us in our darkest moments. 

I pray this season is one filled with things for you to be thankful for, but most importantly that we can be people that are truly thankful for the life God has given us and show it to the world around us! 

October – ELP Highlight

Name: Katie Settle

Age: 27

Hometown: Coleraine, Northern Ireland

Teen Challenge Center: Fort Myers Florida June 2018

Brief Testimony: Two years ago I was using my daughter’s daycare money to fund my $400/Week cocaine habit. I  had walked out on my family, my friends, and most importantly God. I saw no future for myself. Today, I have purpose because Jesus Christ is the Lord of my life, and even in the face of difficulty, I have hope. My passion is to share the truth of an almighty, eternal God with a world that has rejected and forgotten Him.

What is the vision and calling that God has given you? To testify the truth of His existence and hope to a dead and secular world.

How has the ELP Program impacted you? Everything is different working for the Lord. I’m discovering the joy in serving, and learning that leadership is 100% more about humility and submission than “being the boss”. Leading like Jesus means perfecting the role of servant.

 

October TF Highlight

Name: Cosett Williams Age: 34
Hometown: Miami Florida
Teen Challenge Center: Fort Myers , Fl Woman Home

Brief Testimony: After finishing my Internship I was hopeful that there was going to be a position open for me but their wasn’t one so I went into the role that God set before me in discipleship in my home. After almost two years waiting faithfully God called and He gave me the desires of my heart, which was working with Teen Challenge. Today I work with the women in Fort Myers and I wake up with a purpose knowing that I am making a difference.

What do you enjoy most about your role? Seeing the transformation from beginning to the end.

Why do you feel that leadership and training are valuable? It prepares me in becoming a better staff member and it equips me with tools that I can apply in my daily walk.

Main Article – A Leader Worth Following

By: Bryan Sampson

If you are not careful you can go through life and never ask yourself the pertinent questions that can change the entire philosophy and scope of your life for the better. Some important questions you should ask as a leader in Teen Challenge are what kind of leader do you want to be and what kind of leader do you want to be remembered as? With so many leadership philosophies and ideologies, it can seem overwhelming to choose what is going to make you succeed as a leader. So, what is going to make the difference in your leadership style and the legacy you leave behind? Character.

Your character is everything. It is what people are going to associate with your name and will determine your legacy. So, what is character? Stanley (2003) defines it as “the will to do what’s right even when it’s hard” (p.133). Having the kind of character that glorifies God and will make you a leader worth following will require a willingness to make the right decisions. Decisions that are tough, that may run contrary to emotion, intuition, economics, current trends and in the eyes of some, common sense. To have this kind of character you have to believe and follow an absolute standard of right and wrong which is independent of your emotions, experiences, or desires. It will be your willingness to say “no” that will set you a part from the pack and make you a leader worth following.

Don’t become intoxicated with the world desires of power, money, success, fame…. As Stanley (2003) points out “intoxicated people see the world differently” (p.138). They see rules for the common man but not themselves. Leading with character is not doing the right thing to avoid consequences, but because it is the right thing to do. “Virtue is not a means to an end. It is the end” (Stanley, 2003, p. 138). We must recognize and submit to joyfully following the moral law which has been revealed by God through His word and in our hearts. We must always walk in humility and never come to believe that our position, success, or situation can give us the right to replace what God has put in place.

I challenge you today to analyze yourself and have God search your heart to reveal what kind of character you are demonstrating and leading with. Pray for God to reveal His truth and have it become the standard that you choose to live by so that you can develop the Godly character to bring Him glory so that others may follow.

References

Stanley, A. (2003). The next generation leader: Five essential for those who will shape the future. New York: Multnomah.

September – TF Highlight

Name: John Arnold

Age: 26

Hometown: Manitou, KY

Teen Challenge Center: I graduated from Shenandoah Valley Teen Challenge in 2015. I’m currently on staff at Teen Challenge Men’s Center, Dixon, KY.

Testimony: I had a great upbringing as a child in a supportive loving home but early in my teenage years I chose to consume myself with the things of this world. I entered Teen Challenge in September of 2014 broken, depressed, desperate and addicted. During my 12 months at TC I encountered God and He revealed Himself to me like never before. It is 100% His credit for the changes He has helped me make in my life and I continue to make daily. I am extremely grateful that He restored me and am excited for the future He has for me. Romans 12:1!

What do you enjoy most about your role?: I enjoy being able to first hand witness God impacting others’ lives the same way He impacted mine. It’s humbling to be in a position to help lead others to new levels of leadership and discipleship.

What do you feel that leadership and training are valuable? Leadership training is essential for the Kingdom to expand! We all have to teach and learn from one another to more effectively carry out our purpose for Him.

September – ELP Highlight

Name: Zac Mullins

Age: 31 years old

Hometown: Lexington, KY

TC Center: Pensacola TC 2016

Testimony: For the past ten years I was lost trying to find my place in the world. I was using copious amounts of drugs and using everyone around me to fulfill my selfish desires. I was asked to participate in Pensacola TC and reluctantly decided I would go to try and change my life. I found God in those first few weeks and He has forever changed my life.

What is the vision and calling God has given you? To help others that struggle with the same life controlling issues that I have struggled with in my life.

How has the ELP Program impacted you? The program has shown me how to stretch and push myself beyond my mental and spiritual limits that I thought existed. It has constantly caused me to look at and reassess how I present myself and engage with other people.

Main Article – The Essentiality of Coaching

By: Bryan Sampson

Take a moment and think back to your childhood and recall that teacher or coach who made a big impact in your life. Does a specific person come to mind? For me it was Mr. Stowe, my eighth-grade basketball coach. I won’t ever forget Mr. Stowe because he made such a profound impact on my life. What made Mr. Stowe so impactful on my life? It wasn’t that he had the greatest techniques and skills, it wasn’t even that he was an excellent coach, no, what made him the greatest coach of my life was that I knew I needed him to teach me so I could improve to be a better basketball player. I knew he cared, I respected him, and I needed him, so I absorbed everything he offered. The coaches’ impact can only have an effect if we are aware of our need for them. Sadly, most of us don’t believe we are in need of anyone to coach us in things outside of sports. Stanley (2003) makes a great observation when he states “In the world of leadership we have a tendency to operate under the misguided assumption that because we are leaders, we don’t need to be led. Once we are recognized for our ability to “perform,” we think we don’t need outside input in order to enhance our performance” (p.105).

To be the best next generation leaders we can be, it is essential to enlist the help of others to evaluate us and help us see how we can improve in our leadership skills (Stanley, 2003, p.106). This must become a priority if we are ever going to meet our full potential. To think that we can just coast through life only comparing ourselves against other people would be an erroneous assumption which would have detrimental affects to our growth and development (sanctification). We have a tendency to measure ourselves against the people around us and not asking the critical question of “how am I measuring up to my potential?” How can we become all God created us to be if we aren’t aware of our own potential? This is where a coach comes in. A coach will take us to the next echelon in our leadership development, as they will help us measure ourselves against our strengths instead of against someone else’s. A coach will know what we are capable of and will push us to our limit. The only question is do we want it? Do we want the feedback and critical insights that can help us reach our full potential?

So take a moment and honestly examine yourself today. Do you feel the need for a coach in your life? Why or why not? What may be preventing you from seeking the feedback from a respected colleague or leader?

The great news is that you can start today, just simply ask another respected leader or colleague for honest feedback on how you have been performing, teaching, mentoring, holding meetings, etc… I pray we all can walk with the humility needed to receive the feedback and insights that can radically shape us into the next generation leaders God is calling us to be for His glory and purpose. 

 

References

Stanley, A. (2003). The next generation leader: Five essential for those who will shape the future. New York: Multnomah.

Main Article – Clarity in times of Uncertainty

Article By: Bryan Sampson

Take a moment and imagine yourself being an Israelite. You just wandered the desert for 40 years. Your feet hurt, your lips are dry, and you long for the land of milk and honey you have heard so much about. Then you get word; it is time. It is time that for you, as a people to possess the promise land. Everything inside of you jumps with joy, as energy pulsates through your body, your heart starts pounding, your feet stop hurting and you run to your leader Moses and ask what are we going to do!? He explains to you that you are now the leader of the people as he goes off to die. Charged with the order to bring your people into the precious promise land you begin to wonder how you even begin this journey. What do you do? How do you begin? The LORD has commanded you to be strong and courageous, but what about all of the uncertainty?

These are questions we can find in our day-to-day lives frequently. How do we start…? What about…? If this happens then… It can go on and on. Uncertainty has the ability to paralyze a person. It can also shatter progress and growth, preventing essential changes from taking place. As a next generation leader, we cannot allow this to happen. In these times of uncertainty clarity is paramount. Stanley states, “If you are unable or unwilling to be clear when things are not certain, you are not ready to assume further leadership responsibilities” (Stanley, 2003, p.91).

So, how did Joshua respond with the uncertainties they faced? Joshua was clear “prepare provisions for yourselves, for within three days you are to cross this Jordan, to begin to possess the land which the Lord your God is giving you to possess.” (Josh 1:10-11).

            People – “But what about the river? How are we going to cross it?”

            Joshua – “I’m not sure, be ready to leave in three days.”

            People – “What are we going to do when we get across?”

            Joshua – “I’ll tell you when we get there, just be ready in three days to move out”

Today I challenge you to be crystal clear with the vision and purpose God has for your role and ministry with those you are leading. Communicate in a way that shows confidence. Don’t allow uncertainty to prevent you from being clear and taking a chance. Allow it to be the opportunity for greater levels of trust and commitment to form. Remember what Stanley (2003) says, “People will follow you if you’re wrong. They will not follow you if you’re unclear” (p.89).

Let us pray for the courage needed to communicate as precise and clear as possible, so those who follow will not be lead astray and we will achieve the purpose God has set out for us to possess.